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The Gentle Sleep Spell ☾ DIY Rosewater Linen Spray for Dreamy Nights ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween
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The Gentle Sleep Spell ☾ DIY Rosewater Linen Spray for Dreamy Nights ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween

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The room is dark, save for the soft, golden glow of a distant taper candles. It’s the time of night when we turn our hearts and our thoughts over to the promise of deep rest.

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Hello, my lovelies! ♡

For the twelfth night of Pinkoween, we are performing the gentlest magic of all: the ritual of preparing our sleep space. Our bed should be our safest, coziest sanctuary and a place where we can truly drift away. 

One of my personal favorite ways to do this is through a dreamy pillow spray charged with intention and specific needs. The one I bought from a local shop was made with lemongrass, lavender, and had amethyst crystal chips for sleep, relaxation, and protection in sleep. Unfortunately the shop closed, so now I make my own! 

So tonight, I’m sharing a simple, dreamy recipe for a spray, that will turn your bedding into a cloud of pink serenity. Think of this mist as a quiet, fragrant vow you make to yourself for peaceful, dreamy slumber.

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The Ingredients

The beauty of this ritual lies in its simplicity. We are using ingredients known for their calming, feminine energy.

Rosewater – for self love, protection, and lovely dreams. 

Moon Water – for the added benefits of being charged by the moon (I love using full moon water!)

Vanilla Essential Oil – for warmth and comforting energy. 

Lavender Essential Oil – for a calm, deep rest and ridding you of anxiety.

Amethyst Crystal Chips – to charge your spray with peace and protective energy for dreams.

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The Recipe (For a 4 oz Bottle):

1. Fill 3/4 of a clean spray bottle with pure rosewater.

2. Add 10 drops of Lavender Essential Oil.

3. Add 5 drops of Vanilla Essence (or a hint of vanilla oil).

4. Top off with moon water, giving it a gentle shake to blend everything.

5. If you have some, drop in small chips of Amethyst (I get mine at a local crystal shop).

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The Ritual

Using the mist isn’t just about scent; it’s about intention. This is the moment we focus on deep breathing to ground ourselves for rest.

The Intention: Stand by your bed and hold the bottle, focusing your gaze on your softest pillows and silk sheets. Think: “I release the worries of the day. My dreams are gentle, my rest is deep.”

The Mist: Give the mist two or three light spritzes over your pillows and duvet. The fragrant cloud should be subtle because it’s a loving secret, not a powerful perfume.

The Soft Breath: Lay down, pulling your soft blankets up to your chin. Close your eyes. Take three slow, deep pilates style breaths (in through the nose, out through the mouth). With each exhale, feel the last remnants of tension and stress gently melt away.

The Embrace: As you inhale the dreamy aroma of the rosewater and lavender, allow your body to surrender to the plush embrace of your bedding. You are safe, you are loved, and you are ready to drift off to serenity.

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This simple mist makes every single night feel like a special, intentional act of self-love and that is the most potent magic of all.

May your dreams be soft and your heart be light tonight! What small, fragrant ritual are you incorporating into your own cozy evening routine? ♡

Blush & Bows ☾ A Cozy Guide to Building Your Pink Witchy Altar ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween
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Blush & Bows ☾ A Cozy Guide to Building Your Pink Witchy Altar ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween

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The soft sound of crickets chirping outside drifts from the open window as a cool breeze blows gently. With the fairy lights sent to twinkle and the apple cinnamon candle flickering, it’s the perfect cool, autumn night.

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Hello, my lovelies! ♡

Welcome to night 9 of pinkoween! Tonight we are going to perform the most sacred and beautiful ritual of all: creating a personal sanctuary. Our space should reflect the deep, tender love we hold for ourselves, and tonight, we are transforming a small corner into a shimmering, Soft Pink Altar that will be a gentle place for whispers, wishes, and deep self-compassion.

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The Pink Sanctuary 

The concept of an altar might sound grand, but this isn’t about heavy spells, complicated rituals or expensive new items. This is about creating a tiny, cozy, intentional space. Think of your Soft Pink Altar as a small, aesthetic landing pad for your greatest desires, your deepest self-love, and invite in healing energy. Whether you’re using it to do spells and rituals, tarot readings, or even just using it for decoration and positive energy, your altar should reflect you. 

It’s a space where you can gently place your teacup, light a candle, and remember that you are your own favorite muse.

This altar is a promise to choose yourself every single day this season.

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Assembling the Altar

The beauty of our altar lies in its aesthetic simplicity. We are looking for soft textures, blush tones, and small, meaningful objects that fill our hearts with a golden hue. You can use a bedside table, a shelf, or a corner of your desk.

Here are the essential ingredients for casting this gorgeous self-love spell:

A blush pink cloth – for grounding and setting the stage for inviting femininity, softness, and self love. This is your base for your altar!

Rose Quartz – for added self love and tenderness as well as drawing in gentle healing. 

Pink taper candles – used for spells and rituals involving self love, emotional healing, romance, harmony, kindness, and friendship. Put them in vintage glass holders for added beauty on your altar.

Dried herbs for spell work – rose petals, jasmine flower, lavender, and chamomile are all perfect for self love and healing spell work! You can store them in whimsical little jars to keep on your altar for when you need them.

An offering bowl – a small bowl of your choosing (which ever you feel personally drawn to) to put out an offering if you choose. 

A statue of Aphrodite (optional) – for adding self love and healing vibes, include a small figure of Aphrodite. 

Moon water – the perfect aid to spell work and overall healing vibes is putting your moon water in a pretty little jar and keeping it in reach on your altar.

A vintage mirror (optional) – if you’re someone that wants to practice glamour magick at your altar, a vintage mirror would be the perfect addition to your altar!

Divination Tools – if you’re a tarot reader, don’t forget to put your tarot and oracle cards or any other divination tools on your altar.

Additional items you can include – seashells, self love spell jars if you made them, pink himalayan salt, rosewater, or any little trinkets you associate with self love and healing!

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The Arrangement

Once you have gathered your elements, arrange them simply. Everything should be within easy reach, inviting you to engage with the altar daily.

Set the Stage: Drape your velvet or silk fabric. This is your canvas.

Center the Love: Place your Rose Quartz and the offering bowl in the center. This is the heart of your altar. Also add your statue, herbs, moon water jar, shells, divination tools, and mirror. Arrange them in a way that feels right to you.

Light the Way: Position the candle safely. Its flickering glow is the soul of the space. Light it when you wake up, when you come home from your evening walk, or before bed.

Add other items and trinkets of your choosing depending on what your needs will be for the altar. Will you practice tarot there? Read your pendulum? Make spell jars? Or even make an offering in your bowl to a goddess like Aphrodite?

Cleanse and Protect: Take a moment to cleanse your sacred space with an incense stick to banish any negative energy attached to the space or items (sandalwood is perfect for this!) As you’re holding the stick, whisper “I release all energy and negativity that no longer serves me. All fear and doubt has no place in this space. I welcome devine light, healing, and protection in this space. It is protected and peaceful.”

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This Soft Pink Altar isn’t demanding; it’s a cozy, daily embrace waiting for you. 

And so, my lovelies, I hope you enjoy your pretty pink altars. What is the first item you will add to your own soft pink altar tonight? ♡

The Pink Aura ☾ Glamour Magick for Confidence ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween
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The Pink Aura ☾ Glamour Magick for Confidence ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween

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The cozy comfort of the heat warms the entire room as the delectable scent of chocolate cake baking drifts from the kitchen. An old Disney Channel Halloween episode of That’s so Raven plays in the background as I sip on a hot chocolate.

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Hello, my lovelies! ♡

Welcome back for night eight of Pinkoween. Tonight, we’re turning our focus inward and boosting our confidence with our favorite sparkly items.

We all have our signature soft accessories, the ones we wear on the daily as they are part of us. Whether it’s a delicate ring, a dainty rose gold necklace, earrings that were gifted from someone special, or even a soft ribbon, they’re all about surrounding ourselves with beauty. But what happens if we treat our accessories not just as decorative accents, but as small, powerful talismans meant to give us confidence, luck, and even protection?

I have one particular piece, a dainty rose-gold necklace that says my name, that feels like it holds my whole day together. It’s more than just metal; it’s a tiny emotional anchor bringing me confidence and grounding. The moment you put on a meaningful ring, a favorite ribbon, or a special necklace, you change the way you move and feel. This is the aura of the accessory.

This ritual is how I cleanse and “charge” my pieces to ensure they carry only the highest, most intentional energy for what I need at that time.

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Step 1: Gentle Cleansing

Before we charge a piece with intention, we must clear it of residual energy like the stress of yesterday, the quick changes in mood, or the rush of the week.

The Soft Bath: For jewelry that can handle moisture (gold, silver, quartz), fill a small, pretty teacup with purified water, moon water would be even better! Allow the piece to rest there for an hour.

The Smoke Kiss: For delicate items like ribbons, lace, or costume jewelry, it just anything you don’t want in water, gently pass them through the smoke of a softly scented incense stick (I love sandalwood, rose, or sage for this). This is a quick and effective energetic reset.

The Earth Nap: Place your accessory on a bed of natural fibers like a small, silk scarf or a folded pink cloth and let it rest near a window for an hour. You can also charge your pieces this way according to the moon phase! My favorites being either the new moon or the full moon.

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Step 2: The Intentional Charge

Once cleansed, the piece is ready to hold a new, positive frequency. This is where you infuse it with your desired intentions and dreams.

Hold It Close: Cup the accessory in your dominant hand, holding it against your heart space (or your solar plexus, the center of personal power).

State Your Power: Close your eyes and state a clear intention for the piece. It must be specific, positive, and related to your goal for the day or week.

• If you need confidence for a meeting: “This piece holds my courage and sharp wit.”

• If you want to feel soft and graceful: “This piece infuses my movements with gentle elegance.”

• If you need grounding: “This piece connects me to my strength and inner peace.”

• If you need protection: “This piece keeps me safe through all my journeys.”

Breathe: Take three deep, slow breaths, visualizing a warm, soft pink light flowing from your heart, through your hand, and into the accessory. Feel the energy of your intention settle into the material.

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Step 3: The Daily Vow

When you put the piece on, treat it like a vow to yourself. Don’t just clasp the necklace, pause, feel the weight of it, and remind yourself of the intention it carries. It’s your secret spell, the quiet confidence layered underneath the aesthetic.

An accessory is rarely just an accessory. It is a subtle shield, a tiny declaration, and, with a little intentional magic, a powerful talisman for self-love.

What intentions would you put in an accessory? 

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Sachet Spells & Simmer Pots ☾ Crafting Autumn Scents for a Cozy Home ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween
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Sachet Spells & Simmer Pots ☾ Crafting Autumn Scents for a Cozy Home ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween

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As the air outside grows crisp and the day turns to twilight, I turn on the stove making the warm scent of my autumn simmer pot waft through the kitchen. The lights are low with several lit candles in the delightful scent of apple as I curl up with a cup of tea and another romance novel.

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Hello, my lovelies! ♡

Welcome to night 7 of Pinkoween! As you lovlies might be able to tell from my cozy into blurbs before each post, I’m very big on setting a comforting atmosphere with delectable scents to set that scene. So today I thought we would embrace our inner kitchen witch and turn our spaces into the coziest, warmest places to be for the rest of Autumn. I believe that scent is one of the quickest ways to cast a gentle spell over your mood. 

Tonight, we’re making two dreamy items: an aroma therapy sachet for our cozy drawers or under our pillows and a Shimmer Pot for a soft, inviting atmosphere for our homes.

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Part One: Autumn Sachet Spells

An intention sachet is the secret, soft magic you carry with you. They act as little pockets of comfort and protection, scented reminders of the peace you vowed to keep.

This Autumn Sachet is created with the warming spices of fall and the soft, dreamy energy of the rose. It is designed to surround you with cozy protection and gentle self-love as the seasons shift.

These little sachets are perfect for slipping into your pajama drawers or beneath your pillow to infuse everything with comforting, warm scents. 

Ingredients:

• Vessel: Small, sheer organza bag or a piece of pink/cream muslin cloth tied with velvet ribbon. (The container sets the aesthetic tone!)

• Dried Apple/Orange Peel: 1 tbsp dried pieces. (For warmth, vitality, and bringing in sweet abundance.)

• Cinnamon Powder: 1 tsp. (For speeding up positive intentions and protection.)

• Whole Cloves: 1/2 tsp. (For stopping negative energy and enhancing protection.)

• Dried Rose Petals: 1 tbsp. (Your signature ingredient! For self-love, peace, and aesthetic beauty.)

• Star Anise: 1 whole star. (Beautiful for luck and clear intuition.)

• Optional – Lavender: 1/2 tsp dried buds. (For promoting tranquility and deep, serene sleep.)

The Intentional Assembly:

1. Gather & Ground: Find a quiet, peaceful space. Light a small candle (which ever you’re drawn to!) and take three deep, slow breaths to center yourself.

2. State Your Intentions: Hold the empty sachet  in your hands and clearly state the purpose of the charm. Say softly, “This sachet holds the vow of my protection, comfort, and peace.”

3. Mindful Assembly: Add the ingredients one by one. As you place the rose petals inside, visualize a soft, pink light surrounding you. As you add the spices, feel a warm layer of comfort settling over your mind and body.

4. The Seal: If using a bag, pull the drawstring tight. If using cloth, tie it securely with your velvet ribbon. Hold the completed sachet between your hands and charge it with your warmth and energy for a full minute.

5. Placement: Place the sachet somewhere intimate: in your Cozy Book Nook next to your current read, in your pillowcase, or hanging from a mirror. Recharge its energy by holding it and breathing deeply whenever you feel you need a moment of softness.

This is a beautiful, easy way to carry your intentional, soft magic everywhere you go this fall.

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Part Two:  A Simmer Pot Spell

A simmer pot is the easiest and most beautiful self-care ritual you can perform. It acts as a gentle, non-committal spell; a silent promise of warmth, comfort, and the scent of the harvest that wafts through every room. This specific recipe, which is perfect for Autumn, promotes grounding, comfort, and the deep, inviting warmth of a home that’s intentionally loved.

This recipe smells exactly like an apple pie baking in a pink cottage kitchen! It’s simple, lasts for hours, and uses ingredients that evoke the coziest memories of fall.

Ingredients:

• Water: 4–5 cups (Enough to fill your pot halfway).

• Apple: 1 whole apple, thinly sliced (any type works!). (For grounding, health, and a sweet, foundational scent.)

• Cinnamon Sticks: 4-5 whole sticks. (For warmth, protection, and drawing in cozy abundance.)

• Whole Cloves: 1 teaspoon. (A sharp, warm spice that promotes purification and grounding.)

• Fresh Ginger: 2-3 small slices (peeled or unpeeled). (Adds a lovely, subtle spice kick for energy and warmth.)

• Whole Nutmeg: 1 piece, or 1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg. (Essential “pie spice” for luck and intuition.)

• Vanilla Extract: 1 capful. (The ultimate note for comfort, familiar peace, and a dreamy sweetness.)

The Gentle Ritual:

1. Set the Intention: As you gather your ingredients, take a slow, mindful breath. State your intention for the day, such as, “I call in comforting, healing energy,” or “I choose to move through my afternoon with warmth and softness,” or even “I protect my home from negativity” to turn your simmer pot into a protection spell!

2. Assemble your Simmer Pot: Pour your water into a pot. Place the pot on a back burner (low heat is key for a simmer pot) and begin adding your apples and spices, one by one.

3. The Soft Stir: Stir slowly, watching the cinnamon and cloves begin to unfurl their beautiful energy. Use this moment to meditate on the things you are grateful for this season.

4. The Gentle Simmer: Bring the mixture to a very gentle simmer (do not boil!) and reduce the heat to the lowest setting possible.

5. Maintain the Magic: Let the scent fill your home for several hours, checking every 60–90 minutes to add more water if needed. When you are done, simply turn off the heat and allow the pot to cool completely before discarding the contents.

This simple act transforms your home into the most peaceful and intentionally romantic place on Earth. It is a spell of comfort and protection to make your home ready for the season.

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What single scent immediately transports you to your most serene, soft space? Let me know in the comments!

Pink Coven Mixtape ☾ A Soft Girl Autumn Playlist ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween
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Pink Coven Mixtape ☾ A Soft Girl Autumn Playlist ☾ 13 Nights of Pinkoween

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The scent of cinnamon apple pie french toast drifts through the house as the soft whisper of autumn wind wafts from the open window. Amas Veritas by Alan Silvestri plays softly in the background, making the scene feel magical.

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Welcome to Night Four of Pinkoween! Tonight, we turn down the house lights, light a few cozy fall candles, and let the music set our intentions.

For this playlist, I wanted not only the softest autumn vibes that make you feel as though you’re wrapped in a cashmere blanket, but ones that make you feel like a 90s witch.

I believe our perfect Soft Girl Autumn isn’t just about the aesthetics we wear, but the atmosphere we create. Music is one of the quickest ways to cast a gentle spell over your space. This playlist is curated for moments of quiet reading in your cozy book nook, feeling the soft whisper of the autumn air as you practice your kitchen magick, or stirring your evening tea while you muse over your next small adventure.

It’s cozy, dreamy, and slightly witchy—the perfect accompaniment for a little everyday magic. Think of it as the soundtrack for a soft, magical life, less full moon coven, and more Practical Magic kitchen witch. With her flowing maxi skirt and cardigan and her hair half pulled back with a claw clip, this playlist is for the soft girls.

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Find the full Soft Girl Autumn playlist on Spotify:

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I hope this soft, dreamy playlist brings you all the Practical Magic vibes!

What song would you add to this dreamy mix?

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Fated Flames & Forest Walks ☾ My Favorite Fall Lesbian Romance Novels ☾ 13 Nights of Pink-O-Ween
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Fated Flames & Forest Walks ☾ My Favorite Fall Lesbian Romance Novels ☾ 13 Nights of Pink-O-Ween

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The gentle Autumn rain taps at the window as the sky grows darker with the clouds and fog. Inside the atmosphere is cozy, with swirls of pumpkin pie twirling about the room. The soft glow of the fairy lights with the flickering candle create a calming view as I type.

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Hello, my lovelies! ♡

Welcome to night one of the 13 Nights of Pink-O-Ween! Over the next 13 days, I have a plethora of enchanting post for the spookiest time of the year on my own spin on blogtober.

Tonight, the air is foggy & rainy, my pumpkin candles and incense are lit, and I’ve curled up in my favorite spot with a my kindle app!

My most favorite time of year is here again, autumn is the season for fated, atmospheric romance, where mist hangs heavy over the forest and love feels as inevitable as the changing leaves.

These five books are my absolute favorite companions for a cozy, enchanted autumn night. They all take place in Autumn or Halloween, making them perfect to add to your October/November “To Be Reads.”

So grab a warm cup of pumpkin spice tea, and let’s dive into these dreamy worlds of sapphic devotion!

☾ October by Nicole Pyland — Probably my most favorite out of the bunch! This book is actually part of a series where the second of every month a new book drops and the title is that current month, I love it so much I recommend reading them all. However this one takes place in October where a woman, Molly, falls for a co-worker, Finely, who just so happens to be on again off again with another co-worker, India. Finely is finally ready to move on from that relationship and realizes she likes Molly, who doesn’t believe Finely and India are truly over.

☾ Not Just Gal Pals by Elizabeth Luly — This is a cozy Autumnal book that i’ve just started myself! It follows an influencer named Jenny who has recently been canceled due to an unfortunate post. This leads her to extending her time in her hometown of Sapphire Springs, where she is visiting for her finest friend’s wedding. Enter Blake, Sapphire Spring’s only doctor, who’s had a crush on Jenny since high school. A crush that causes her to act awkward anytime she sees Jenny, who views it as Blake disliking her. Now Jenny and Blake must work together on their friend’s bachelorette party where sparks begin to fly.

☾ Pumpkin Spice & Poltergeist by Ali K. Mulford & K. Elle Morrison — This is a “To Be Read” for me, but the concept intrigued me! An apothecary witch named Jordyn has romance on her mind when she gets witch wasted accidentally conjures up her dead ex girlfriend. Her dead ex is now haunting her until she finds someone new to move on with. Harlow, the new girl in town, soon realizes that magic really exists in Maple Hallow and she soon meets Jordyn as sparks being to fly. Will Jordyn’s ghostly girlfriend get in the way of love?

☾ Taping into Love by Monica McCallan — This one is a re-read for me because I love it so much! Back in town after the death of her father, Sierra Westmoore tries to rent out a room in the town’s bed and breakfast called The Maple Inn. The Inn is owned by Lucy and her family and Lucy does not care for the Westmoore family or the maple syrup they produce. Sierra has a plan with her brother to make things right and changing the opinion of the town about their family now that their father is gone. Lucy doesn’t believe a Westmoore could ever change, but will feelings for Sierra change her mind?

☾ Curses & Coldbrew by Ali K. Mulford & K. Elle Morrison — Another “To Be Read” for me! This book takes us back to the magical, ghostly town of Maple Hallow. This time we meet Ramona Henry, whose soul has gone missing and she sets out to go find the thief. Iris Stonewood is Maple Hallow’s flirtatious witch, who Ramona is annoyed by. When Iris is bored she decides she’s going to help Ramona find her soul. When souls start vanishing like candy on Halloween, they must find the culprit before Iris’s soul is next. Ramona and Iris are on the hunt all while their chemistry rises.

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Happy reading, my lovelies! I hope these recommendations fill your cozy book nook with beautiful magic this season. Which one are you adding to your fall stack first? ♡